You’ve been showing up, but something feels off

Maybe you’re angry. rebellious or

You’re just tired, hurt, or quietly drifting from church.

The Slow Drift Is Real

Maybe you can’t quite name it, but you feel yourself slowly pulling away from the faith and community you once loved. It doesn’t happen all at once — it happens gradually through seasons of hurt, exhaustion, or quiet disconnection.

Without a better way forward, many people eventually step away from church altogether, even while still loving Jesus.

"You’ve been showing up, but deep down you know something isn’t right."

Broken

You feel unseen, wounded, or let down by the very people and places that were supposed to be safe.

Burnt Out

You’ve been pouring out for so long that you have nothing left, and you’re running on empty.

Bored

You go through the motions, but your heart isn’t in it anymore — your gifts feel unused and your faith feels dull.

You’re Not Alone in This

As someone who has spent my whole life in church, I’ve experienced seasons of feeling broken, burnt out, and bored. At one point, I looked back and asked myself, “Why have I stayed connected when so many others have drifted away?”

I started writing down the specific actions and rhythms that had kept me spiritually healthy and connected to community over the years. What emerged was a simple, repeatable framework.

That’s why I developed the 6 Unquittable Actions — a grace-filled approach that helps individuals build healthier community and spiritual rhythms.

-Jon Collier, Author & Founder

A Clear Path Forward

These six practices give us a clear, repeatable way to bring Healing, Rest, and Purpose back into our lives. They’re not complicated theories — they’re proven, gospel-centered steps that help you walk with wisdom, create safety, protect your capacity, and keep your hearts engaged for the long haul.

When you put these actions into practice, everything changes.

01

Actively Listen

Create space to be honest with God and safe people about what you’re feeling

02

Encourage Speaking

Find the courage to name your pain, doubts, and disappointments instead of staying silent

03

Monitor Workload

Pay attention to your capacity and stop serving from depletion

04

Give Rest

Build rhythms of Sabbath and soul care instead of constant striving

05

Discover Passion

Reconnect with the gifts and purposes God has placed in you

06

Allow Engagement

Step back into community and service from a place of health and desire, not pressure

This has helped so much 

For a long time, I couldn’t even name what I was feeling. I just knew something was off. Going through the Becoming Unquittable material helped me realize I wasn’t broken or angry... I was simply bored. For the first time in years, I’ve started rediscovering purpose and connection in my faith again.
Long time church member
I actually started going through this because a friend needed it. But as we worked through it together, I realized I had my own areas of brokenness that I had never really dealt with. It ended up being healing for both of us.
Small Group Leader
I had been away from church for a few years. I still believed in Jesus, but I had no desire to go back. This book and workshop helped me gently process what happened and begin rebuilding my spiritual health. I’m not fully back in a church yet, but I feel like I’m finally moving forward instead of staying stuck.
In-between Churches

Begin Your Journey

Here are three practical resources designed specifically to help you heal, rest, and find hope again:
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Church Experience Assessment


Take our free church experience assessment, Unquittable Pulse, and put words to what you have been feeling. This will be helpful in guiding you to the resources that bring healing, rest, and purpose.

Becoming Unquittable Workshop

A self-paced workshop that walks you through the 6 Unquittable Actions with teaching, reflection, and practical steps.

Perfect if you want guided support as you process what you’ve experienced.

Becoming Unquittable (Book)

Becoming Unquittable: Finding Hope When You're Broken, Burnt-out, & Bored of the Church

A compassionate, gospel-centered book written for those who feel hurt or disconnected from church but still long for Jesus and real community.

"Becoming Unquittable? Sounds catchy... but is this just another program that's gonna guilt me into staying?" 

You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck

You’ve carried this long enough.
Whether you’re still in church or have already stepped away, there is hope for healing, rest, and reconnection.
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You’re not too far gone.
And you don’t have to figure this out alone.

A Note for Pastors and Leaders

This page is written for individuals who are hurting or drifting.

If you’re a leader looking for ways to better care for your people and prevent burnout and disconnection in your church, we’ve created resources specifically for you.

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